AbezAbez Is... 50% White, 50 % Pakistani, Muslim Hijab-wearing type female, Daughter of Momma, Sister of Owlie Wife of HF, Momma of Khalid, a special little boy with Autism, and Iman, a special little girl with especially big hair, Writer, Graphic Designer, Editor, Freelancer, Blogger, Inhaler of Chocolate
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Thursday, November 02, 2006

BebeFiles: Some Firsts

Alhamdulillah, Bebeface is seven and a half months old now, and the rate at which he's developing dangerous and cunning new skills is amazing. This week alone has seen several developmental firsts- several key skills he has obtained and now uses to threaten all of humanity with.

So Eye See...
Glasses are not part of a person's face, and can be removed with one quick yank of the gooey, wet fingers and then dropped on the floor. Khalid now knows that glasses are both removable and edible, and there seems to be no turning back, regardless of how we threaten to withdraw damages from his college fund.

Take that, HA!
Khalid now has the ability to, but not necessarily the proper licensing to, drive his walker all over the kitchen, into my ankles, against the dining chairs, etc. Up until just two days ago, he just sat in the walker and if he moved his feet it was out of excitement or frustration, but not with any direction or purpose. At some point though, he seems to have had an epiphany, and one morning surprised me by very purposefully steering himself towards the garbage can and then proceeding to worry said garbage can from one of the kitchen to the other, and then back. This kid can drive.

Take That, CHOMP! Teef. Alhamdulillah, Bebeface has two little bottom-teeth about half-way out now and the two on either side of them are just starting to appear beneath his gums. So now what used to be a cute little gnaw on peoples' fingers is now a life-threatening, needle-sharp brush with dismemberment. Khalid likes to chew, and he likes to chew HARD.

Hello there, Handsome. Khalid has long, meaningful conversations with the handsome baby in our bedroom mirror, and spends tens of minutes (which is hours in baby-time) cooing, squealing, and wiggling his eyebrows at the baby on the other side. And, he does this all sitting up. Khalid started sitting up about a month ago, but only now is he getting really stable enough to stay upright for long periods of time, and without toppling over.

Mine, all mine! Khalid is no longer my computer buddy. It used to be that I could sit him in my lap and operate the lappy easily. Now, I sit Khalid in my lap, turn towards the computer and then frantically push everything away that he's trying to grab and cram in his mouth- mouse, headphone wire, tea cup, hair clips, pen, cell phone, digicam... anything on the table is fair game and very likely to be scooped towards Khalid with both of his outstretched little arms and then slobbered on. Even when I have moved everything out of his reach, he still cranes forward to slap at the power-indicator and wireless modem switch (those pretty blue and yellow lights) on the front of the laptop and gives them a good beating.

You gonna eat that? Cuz if not, Khalid will try. It doesn't matter that Khalid has never had soup before in his entire like, he still wants it, and yesterday he managed to grab a spoonful of it as it was headed towards my mouth, splattering chikken noodle in my lap and down his arm. On top of that, he wouldn't let go of the spoon. He saw me drinking a cup of tea earlier today, and zoomed towards me in his walker, came to a crashing halt against my knees and then started smacking his lips and looking deprived. I'm sorry kid, you are years away from caffeine.

Hey, whose feet are these? Khalid has discovered his feet, and day by day he is learning that they can go closer and closer to his mouth. He holds one foot in each hand, and in a gesture that would be rude if it weren't so impossibly cute, he grins at you over the full-moon he's pointing in your direction. (When he does that without a diaper on, I get scared.)

So yeah, MashaAllah. SubhanAllah. Bebeface gets more and more beautiful and unpredictable and alive every day. He has wants and needs and even a sense of humor, and has a beautiful little laugh that lights up everything- his face, the room, the people around him. I laugh at him sometimes and he looks at me and just laughs back, my crazy beautiful little kid.



At 3/11/06 9:08 PM, Blogger Usman said...

salam Abez...i think i used to read ur blog pehle bhee...before i disappeared and well so did u...how things?

That was a cute essay on bebeface...congrats on a hale and hearty kid...

At 4/11/06 1:08 AM, Blogger Abez said...

JazakAllah Usman, it's nice to see you around again. I rather enjoyed your blog but haven't had time to surf since bebeface made his debut. Will try to pop in again, I especially loved your entries on Islam.

At 4/11/06 9:10 AM, Blogger Carol said...

Oh, our Babeface is growing up. He looked so adorable in his little Punjabi Shelvar kameeze with the little man scarf for Eid. Does he bongra yet?

At 4/11/06 1:30 PM, Anonymous knicq said...

A lovely lovely post Masha Allah...and lovely pictures too....

When do we see bebeface?

At 5/11/06 11:43 AM, Blogger Mona said...

aww zeba, those last few line had me all choked up.
but yea, khalid is a cutie. super edible cutie. mmmmm.

At 7/11/06 2:44 AM, Anonymous Sana said...

Awww he's already seven and a half months? These are the best times of your life. Seriously. And cherish these moments before he can fully start walking. lol. Things get way crazier after that.

Babies are such a blessing. Alhamdulillah for them.

At 11/11/06 11:14 PM, Anonymous Taubah said...

Masha'Allah Abez, sounds wonderful. I am just remembering all the crazy stuff babies bring with them the first few days and weeks. I just had our second little girl on Nov. 2. Tahira 9pounds and 10 ounces!!!!!!! But Masha'Allah kiss the babeface for me.

At 13/11/06 3:58 PM, Anonymous hemlock said...

i mish babeface... :( I VAANTS!
and yes, he IS indeed a super edible babe :D
but umm... dude... you babe needs to crawl... have yet to know of another 7 month old who cant crawl... i knew this kid who would pull her weight from the heel of one extended foot, and then drag her bottom across the floor. that was the closest she got to crawling.
bebeface dont even do that! we VANTS him to CRAWL!!!


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